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Written by Chioma Wogu
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Monday, 29 June 2009 22:11 |
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If your guest list is small, why do you still have to spend all that money
on a hall? Why dont you just have the wedding at home? You wont
need to sit for endless hours thinking of a venue for this big day, because
your solution could just be right outside your backdoor.
Weddings held at home are becoming so popular, especially those that are a
little budget-orientated. Apart from that, this gives the couple the perfect
opportunity to add a little of their own personal touches here and there. About
60% of the all couples live together, and many of them already have their own
homes and would not think twice when deciding to tie the knot in their backyard.
Others, because they are deprived of space, decide to get married at a friend
or relatives house.
Weddings held at home simply means that the guest-list is going to be short.
There are a few people that have an average of 25 people attend their wedding,
and they are still able to have all the fun and make the day memorable. To make
your day even more enjoyable, you could always consider bringing in an artist
and asking him to paint a few murals in the dining room and in the living room.
This will go great with whatever backdrop you are trying to achieve. Add a few
flowers here and there and you have just created a portrait and all it will
take is for Romeo and Juliet to fill it in.
What makes at-home weddings great in your own home is the fact that when you
have your grandchildren on your lap, you can point out exactly where it was
grandfather put that lovely ring on your finger, and then look
down at that same ring on your finger as if it was put on there yesterday. What
makes the thought worth it is the fact that you and your partner live together
and you are creating memories day in and day out. Having your wedding at home,
along with all the existing memories, adds to the intimacy. You, your partner
and your few guests - everything will just feel right.
Apart from charming and intimate, having your wedding at home does not suit
everyone. It can be reasonably cheap, but it also depends on the elaboration
of this event, because then it can prove costly and also very stressful than
having it anywhere else. Deciding to have it at home outside, you are most likely
going to hire a wedding marquee, chairs, tables and linens. This does add to
the cost a bit. If you decide inside your home, there will be a chance that
you will not have enough to accommodate your guests. If you are not preparing
the dinner yourself or your family is not, then you will be looking at a caterer.
Also make sure that your bathroom can put up with all the guests because of
the frequent use. Otherwise, you might want to think about hiring a couple of
portable restrooms. You wouldnt want to hear that your toilet has just
overflowed.
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10 Tips for the Perfect Outdoor Wedding |
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Written by Debbie Allen
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Saturday, 25 April 2009 16:02 |
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Avoiding Outdoor Wedding Pitfalls
Youve decided to have an outdoor wedding? Congratulations. Outdoor weddings
are romantic and beautiful. However, they arent as easy as they may look.
Outdoor weddings come with additional caveats and pitfalls, but if you follow
these tips, youll be sure to shine on your wedding day.
1. Make your guests comfortable Think about what the weather will likely be at
the time of day and month of the year of your outdoor wedding. Sunny and hot?
Dont leave your guests uncomfortably melting have your ushers give
guests ice-cold bottles of water as they are seated. Consider printing your wedding
program on a fan so that guests may cool themselves. Dont forget to have
plenty of sunscreen on hand as well. For a very warm location, look into renting
large electric fans (dont forget a generator) and/or a tent to shade the
suns rays. If it will be cold and damp, make sure you tell guests that so they
can wear extra layers. A simple xeroxed insert will do. You might want to have
lap blankets on hand, or rent portable heaters.
2. Have a backup plan What will you do if it rains? The ideal outdoor wedding
location has an indoor location waiting just in case. Many brides and grooms opt
to have their ceremony outside and reception inside. In a pinch, the tables can
be scooted to the back of the room during the ceremony. A tent is another option,
but only for light to moderate rain storms. A heavy rain will soak the ground
underneath, leaving guests with soggy and muddy shoes. Make sure any tent you
rent is sturdy so it wont flip over, and that it has thick and weighted
sides.
3. Plan for Wind Many outdoor weddings suffer from windy conditions. Avoid light
fabrics like chiffons and china silks in your dress and the bridesmaid dresses.
Tell your hairstylist that youll be having an outdoor wedding so she/he
can plan a style that wont leave you looking like Cousin It! Men in the
wedding party should use pomade or other styling product. Again, tell your guests
in a printed insert so that they can plan accordingly. And of course, make sure
your tent will stand up to gusting winds or find an indoor backup plan.
4. Can everybody hear? When you picture your dream wedding at the beach, youre
probably not hearing the roaring of the waves, the rushing wind, or the local
kids running and screaming around you. Look into renting a sound system with clip
mikes for the bride, groom and officiant. Your DJ or band may be able to easily
arrange this for you.
5. Decorations One of the bonuses of an outdoor wedding is the natural beauty
around you, lessening your need to decorate. But you still need to do some work.
Visit the site a week before your wedding to make sure the grass is mown, the
ground raked, and the flowers have bloomed. If your wedding is at a public park,
you may want to ask the groomsmen or friends to do this the morning of your ceremony.
If its been an especially cold season, you may need to supplement the flowers
with some potted bulbs from a florist. Other decorations you may want to consider
include an arch or trellis to focus the ceremony and frame the bride and groom
as they say their vows; strings of lights or lanterns in the trees; luminarias;
torches; or farolitas.
6. Make things tasty outside Does your caterer have experience planning an outdoor
wedding menu? Make sure theyre planning things that will keep well outdoors
in the heat. Avoid things like mayonnaise salads or dishes which must be served
cold.
7. Dont leave your guests parched Since alcohol is dehydrating, consider
serving a variety of lemonades, teas and punches. Be sure to have plenty of ice
and water around as well. For a fancy cocktail, why not serve a classic mint julep
or a mojito? The mint will refresh and cool your guests.
8. Those pesky flying things Be sure to put out citronella candles or a bug zapper
so that your guests wont spend the whole ceremony swatting at the air.
9. Here comes the sun Consider timing your outdoor wedding for sunset where your
guests will see you take your vows surrounded by the warm glow of the sun. Those
having a daytime outdoor wedding should orient the ceremony so that the sun will
be on guests backs rather than in their eyes.
10. Permits Dont forget to contact your city parks department or other
local government to get a permit for an outdoor wedding. Be sure to ask about
rules concerning trash removal, candle or torch lighting, and pre-wedding photography.
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